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Advice Needed Convince wife for open marriage

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So my wife has started chatting with a dude on Facebook. And there is one team mate of her in office with whom she started spending a lot of time, as he live in our area he pick her up for office. One day after picking her up he said he forgot something in his flat so she went with him in his flat but just 5 mins. Or this is what she has told so far to me. You guys tell me if this is positive development?
 

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So my wife has started chatting with a dude on Facebook. And there is one team mate of her in office with whom she started spending a lot of time, as he live in our area he pick her up for office. One day after picking her up he said he forgot something in his flat so she went with him in his flat but just 5 mins. Or this is what she has told so far to me. You guys tell me if this is positive development?

Yes its very good sign.. taunt her by saying that she can not have bf..she has become too old..and give her dare to have bf...initially ask her to chat and normal meetup only..eventually that guy will step ahead..and u just enjoy and keep us posted.
 
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It takes lot of time and honesty, like others have suggested wearing revealing clothes with friends is first step. Praise her a lot when she does, even if you have to make up stories about how your friends were complementing her look etc. It took me years and now my wife has agreed to just share pictures and chat with strangers, she had couple of good chats here and had crazy orgasm.

With couple of our friends she is more friendly and wears extra special clothes when we go out with them. Now she is started role play too and using the guys name when we have sex. She is reading this and suggesting honesty, patience is important.
 
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Ek hi tarika hai bahut easy v hai, desh se bahar chala ja kamane ke liye aur kam se kam 2-3 saal tak ghar mat aana. Bus itna hi kafi hai. Jab tum ghar wapas aaoge to dekhoge ki tumhari wife fully open ho chuki hai😂😂😇is idea ko jarur try karna😜
 
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So recently I found out that my wife is hanging out with her colleague at his flat after office. As she work in morning shift, her office is over by 4, but I work in Europe shift so I am only back home by 11.
She has told me honestly that she goes with him to his flat, they eat, watch tv and talk. But what she did not tell me was once they shared a moment of passion and kissed. I got to know this by reading her message on phone. It was the message from her colleague that he liked the touch of her lips. This message was 10 days back, I have no update post that but she is still spending time at his flat daily after office. Do you guys think that kiss was a one time thing or they are doing it daily now ? Also should I ask her about it or just leave it ?
 

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So recently I found out that my wife is hanging out with her colleague at his flat after office. As she work in morning shift, her office is over by 4, but I work in Europe shift so I am only back home by 11.
She has told me honestly that she goes with him to his flat, they eat, watch tv and talk. But what she did not tell me was once they shared a moment of passion and kissed. I got to know this by reading her message on phone. It was the message from her colleague that he liked the touch of her lips. This message was 10 days back, I have no update post that but she is still spending time at his flat daily after office. Do you guys think that kiss was a one time thing or they are doing it daily now ? Also should I ask her about it or just leave it ?
rajuraju5556667 .......It seems your wife has made rapid progress since you first asked your question. If she is spending time with her colleague at his flat, then there are definite possibilities of things progressing further.

Have you spoken to her in the past about your fantasy? She will get very angry when you first bring up the topic, but you have to be persistent. Be extra loving to her and create a strong bond with her. Keep telling her that you will always love her. Women are usually worried that if she wanders then you will have affairs yourself.

Do not let her know that you have peeped into her mobile messages. Women hate spying on them. Watch Indian 3-sum porn together. Role-play and ask her to imagine that she is having sex with a friend/stranger.

You can read my story which I shall be posting tomorrow for the XForum Contest. You will get some ideas. Best of Luck.
 
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