Soursweet,# How long you have been married: - 15years
# what's the frequency of sex- mostly twice , sometimes thrice in a wk
# who usually initiate - she
# duration of foreplay - 10-15 mnts
# duration of actual fucking- 5-7 mnts
# usual position - missionary and doggy
# do you ensure your wife's climax - yes
# what's your talks during foreplay and sex - after such a long time with each other romantic se jyada kinky talks achhi lagne lagti hain dono ko. we talk about She is getting fucked by someone and I am watching her Or SrSP or sometimes roleplay. But always about kinky fantasies.
# post sex scene - clean up and sleep.
Thanks for bucking the trend and answering the Survey ( though I am not the creator of the Survey). I am in a position to comment on your Answers though. I have been a paid Moderator at AskAnjali so well versed on the Topic.
One of the good reasons for the frequency of your Sex, is that your wife initiates it. This implies that she has a high libido, which is a great sign in a relationship. Sex is also a sign of bonding (give and take) and the mental comfort level. Often, we mistake sex as only being physical, which is incorrect.
Many feel that sex should be spontaneous (on the spot), But due to hectic social/work life, it may be a good idea to plant the idea of having sex later that day, in the morning itself. Just the thrill of waiting is worth it. Have a schedule.
Role play is a great way to spice up your sex life. Master-slave, Doctor-patient/nurse, Teacher-student, House owner-tenant/servant, the list is endless. Sex is more in the mind. (Never discuss these role plays, the next day). There is so such thing as kinkiness in sex. The more you are able to fantasize and also get your partner to shed her inhibitions, the greater the thrill.
Keep enjoying.