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I am sure that my wife has always in love with her bf. As far as i know they wanted to get married before our marriage. But as her bf was financially poor and not literate my father in law was agaisnt their marriage. I am not that bad during sex. But definitely he is better than me even at this age.Why you want stop this, change your mind, and concitrate her desire. Just u think :
१. Why your wife attract with someone? If you hve no answer than ask me, .
Yes I am trying to make my wife understand that this type of nasty affair has no future. I believe the situation is improvingहवस के कुछ दिन हैं ये इसीलिए ये कर रही है तुम्हारी वाइफ। उससे बात करो कि तुमको पूरी जिंदगी साथ रहना है ना कि बस सेक्स के लिए। अगर तुम कक बने तो तुम्हारी लाइफ बेकार ही बनेगी क्योंकि वो तुम्हारा सम्मान नही करेगी। उससे अकेले में बात करो। समझाओ ताकि उसका दिमाग हवस से परे भी सोच पाए। अगर तुमको cuck बन कर खुशी मिल रही है तो फिर तुम खुश रहो अपने बच्चों पर ध्यान दो। उसको बोल दो कि ये सब बच्चों के सामने मत करो। नहीं तो उनकी जिंदगी खराब होगी। उन्हे अपनी मां का प्यार मिलते रहना चाहिए। तुम अपना एक्स्ट्रा मैरिटल अफेयर चला सकते हो। काफी सारी लड़कियां हैं जो तुमको मिल जाएंगी unsatisfied होंगी।
I think in this comment you get answer own words, her bf better in sex. This is problem.I am sure that my wife has always in love with her bf. As far as i know they wanted to get married before our marriage. But as her bf was financially poor and not literate my father in law was agaisnt their marriage. I am not that bad during sex. But definitely he is better than me even at this age.
Also what do you think about why my wife is preferring him over me ???
Women love attention and she's getting it through social media,you cannot stop her,it will back fire big time and she'll develop a deep resentment towards you and with this you'll push your wife into another man's arms,modern day women cannot be restricted to the kitchen,be her friend and celebrate the appreciation she gets be her confidant and that's the only way to get her to respect you,keep reminding her of the possible dangers in getting in touch with other men,give her full confidence that you are with her and only then she will be an open book,give her the confidence to share her deepest secrets with you and assure her that you'll not judge her negatively,she may develop frendships with some dudes and it may even turn to flirting and sexting she may even develop feelings for somone,don't panic and never ever talk her down that's your only way to control her,99.9% make the mistake of blowing up and loose all access to information and one fine day the face the D-day when the get to know of a full fleged physical affair,so give your woman the confidence to be an open book and assure her that you want har to be happy, remember marrige is too monotonous somtimes to push humans into cheating,be the most loving,most caring husband and fight your inner jealous self that's your worst enemy,no woman wants to leave a loving husband who always has her back,there may be an odd fling here and there but she'll always be yours,support her and you will have a happy united family.Dear frnd i have some prblom face last few months. My wife acitve in soical media like insta, fb etc. She make own reel video and uplodes. Many people watch thts reel and give comment in very bulgar language. Like bhabhi you are sexy, I want fuck you, bhabhi your boobs is so big and sexy curves etc.
After reading thts comment my wife react normal and she reply thanks. But my feelings is become exitment, I feel erection in my penis if someone write thts mesej.
Is this is normal...??
Is this is hormone problm???
Is this is cuckold syptoms???
Pls give me correct advise seriously.
Bro i advise you the googly strategy,you wife is in love with her boyfriend and most importantly he's giving her the better sex,so you see she's not entirely at fault for your inadequacy,you'll have to be very strategic here,you'll have to play a cuckold for some time,offer your wife her freedom in exchange for keeping the family intact,let her enjoy her sex and in a few months the new relationship energy will calm down,in the meantime work on yourself,join the gym get in prime physical shape and let out the anger on the iron,contact a sexologist to improve your performance - the change in your personality will be noticed by your wife,do not be present when they have sex,give a clear message that you've given her the freedom for her and the family's happiness but you're not part of the action,gather as much evidence as possible to be used later,keep your options open for new relationship,wait for a few months and see what happens,she's not a fool to throw away the family without reason,give her the freedom and also improve your value,tell her that if she wants to divorce anyway you're ready to move onto other women,this is your only card,the boat if already half sunk,give the relationship another chance,don't go divorce too early because after that too she'll be having legal sex with her boyfriend,the biggest problem is that he wants to marry her,had he been married it would be is everyone's interest that they remain lovers,and your wife can develop feelings for you too,she does love you just that she's getting better love and sex from her boyfriend,use your son to keep the relationship going for a few months.read the unwanted houseguest and it's sequel the mouse that roared on Xforum and x forum that's an intense story like yours,knowing me and my wife too is great,although stories they train your mind to pursue an alrernate method to combat the situation not that slam bang divorce,it will ruin the family.I am married for the last 14 years and blessed with 2 sons aged 12 and 2. She is a very beautiful, caring wife. She is 37 years old now, our marriage was an arranged one. However, even before marriage I came to know that she had a serious relationship with her ex, however I did not hesitate to marry.
My life was going very peacefully until in 2021 she started to change. Before that she used to manage me, my family, my parents, my elder son and my financial affairs.
At that time we even had a good sexual life, but at one point I figured out that she is more interested to stay in her mother's house which is just 5 mins away from mine. I also figured out that she was not interested in my family anymore. She was even not enjoying sex with me. Time flew and lockdown took place. At that time I came to know that she was chatting, video calling someone. But my heart broke when I found out that she was on contraceptive pills however we were not mating for months. I started to follow her and found out that she was going to meet her ex bf who is also staying in the same building of her mother. That man is almost 50 years old and single used to live in europe when we were getting married.
I could not tolerate and had a fight with my wife. This issue even escalated to our parents. That man was forced to vacate the flat in that biulding. My wife appologised to me and i also forgave her considering that was her first love and mistake.
We even started to love again and planned for a second baby and my wife gave birth our 2nd son in 2022.
Everything was going well until 2 months ago my eldest son told me that when I am in office, a person visits his mother and they lock the bedroom and stay inside for more than hours. Soon I discovered that since 2021, my wifes affair never stopped, I was just fooled. Now my wife is so furiois that she is not affraid of our family. She wants to divorce me. But at this age I do not want. I am watching her getting fuck by her old bf.
what can i do ??
Shaadi shua tum or sawal mujhse?Mak give him some suggestions![]()