I am not sure but probably my wife had a relation about 2 years ago. At that time I used to come home in weekend only. My sons were young at that time one aged 11 and other one 9. Indication I found that shows my wife had affair is given below:
1. Oneday I found birth control pills in a unusual drawer in my sons playing room. I use condom, so how come ? When i asked my wife she said she does not know anyhting about that. My sons told me that their mom takes them
2. Once my elder son told me that my wife's male friend was in my bedroom whole night. When i asked my wife, she claimed my son did not notice that he left at 12 pm.
3. She has lost interest in me in the past 4-5 years. We are married since 2009. And it is arrange marriage. During that time I came to know that she used to have a serious bf with whom she was unable to marry.
4. She used to chat with that male friend a lot. But when my parents interfered about 2 years ago it stopped. There are many more which maked me feel unhappy.
does all the above indicate she had an affair ??