SEX: Questions and Answers

[Clipmaster99]

Today, we will do something different in this Thread.

We all come to XForum to see the Picture Threads and read the Stories, but what about the sexual doubts that we have in mind?

As the thread title suggests, it is about Sex: Questions and Answers. You are all free to give your Answers to the Question asked. Please do NOT post any pictures here. Use other Threads. I will pose one Question and Answer every day.




आज, हम इस थ्रेड में कुछ अलग करेंगे। हम सभी XForum पर पिक्चर थ्रेड देखने और कहानियाँ पढ़ने के लिए आते हैं, लेकिन हमारे मन में जो सेक्स संबंधी संदेह हैं, उनका क्या?

जैसा कि थ्रेड शीर्षक कहता है, यह सेक्स के बारे में है: प्रश्न और उत्तर। आप सभी पूछे गए प्रश्न का उत्तर देने के लिए स्वतंत्र हैं। Kripya iss Thread mein pictures post karna allowed NAHI hai. मैं हर दिन एक प्रश्न - उत्तर प्रस्तुत करूँगा।

 

[Kusum Sharma]

Today's Sex Question and Answer

Tampons



Pads








Q. मैं एक छात्रा हूँ और एक छात्रावास में रहती हूँ। मैंने एक बार टैम्पान का उपयोग करने की कोशिश की थी।

मुझे चकत्ते निकल आए और काफ़ी दर्द हुआ। क्यों?

मैंने सुना था कि टैम्पान पैड की तुलना में बेहतर हैं। मैंने चकत्तों पर क्रीम लगाई और कुछ दिनों के बाद वे ठीक हो गए।

यह शर्मनाक था और वहाँ ऐसा कोई नहीं था जिससे मैं इस बारे में कुछ पूछ पाती।

Ans. कुछ महिलाएँ पैड की तुलना में टैम्पान पसंद करती हैं। आपको वही उपयोग करना चाहिए जो आपके लिए अधिक आरामदायक हो।

हालांकि एक टैम्पान के उपयोग की विधि जानने में कुछ समय और प्रयास लग सकता है, अगर ठीक से इस्तेमाल किया जाए तो यह सुरक्षित और सुविधाजनक होता है।

यदि टैम्पान को सही तरीके से अन्दर न डाला गया हो या स्थित न किया गया हो तो इसके कारण असुविधा हो सकती है।

यदि टैम्पान का उपयोग करते समय आप तनाव में हों तो iske प्रयोग में आपको दर्द हो सकता है। टैम्पान के प्रयोग की निर्देश पुस्तिका को ध्यान से पढ़ें।

संक्रमण को रोकने के लिए हर चार से छह घंटे के पश्चात टैम्पान बदल दिया जाना चाहिए। हो सकता है कि आपने टैम्पान को देर तक बदला न हो इसी कारण आपको चकत्ते हो गए हों।

कुछ लोग टैन्पान में उपयोग किए जाने वाले पदार्थ के प्रति भी संवेदनशील होते हैं। भविष्य में, किसी योग्य डाक्टर की सलाह के बिना योनि या उसके आस-पास कोई भी क्रीम लगाने से बचें।

Q. I am a student and live in a hostel. I tried using tampons once. I got rashes, and it was quite painful. Why?

I had heard that tampons are better than pads. I put cream on the rashes and they went away after a few days.

It was embarrassing, and there was no one I could ask about it.

Ans. Some women prefer tampons to pads. You should use what is more comfortable for you.

Although it may take some time and effort to learn how to use a tampon, it is safe and convenient if used properly.

If a tampon is not inserted or positioned correctly, it can cause discomfort. If you are straining while using a tampon, it may cause pain.

Read the tampon's instructions carefully. Tampons should be changed every four to six hours to prevent infection.

It is possible that you have developed a rash if you have not changed your tampon for a long time. Some people are also sensitive to the material used in tampons.

In future, avoid applying any cream in or around the vagina without consulting a qualified doctor.

For All Girls who doesn't have much knowledge about it.. please ask your mom or aunty or bhabhi.. also doctor but who wants to discuss period with doctor at this age...

 

[Clipmaster99]

Missionary Give Us comfort Warmness and Intimacy it's best if You want to more emotionally involved in sex...

Doggy style is most overrated.. Neither provide comfort.. nore a intimacy.. Just get popularity because of porn videos.. it's looks beautiful to watching as third person for sure.. not sure from men perspective but I don't much like that position.. it's good if something is thare to support my tummy and boobs

Missionary Give Us comfort Warmness and Intimacy it's best if You want to more emotionally involved in sex...

Doggy style is most overrated.. Neither provide comfort.. nore a intimacy.. Just get popularity because of porn videos.. it's looks beautiful to watching as third person for sure.. not sure from men perspective but I don't much like that position.. it's good if something is thare to support my tummy and boobs

You are right. The Missionary position is the most common. I have said in my article: "The missionary position is often preferred by couples who enjoy the romantic aspects of ample skin-to-skin contact and want the opportunity to look into each other's eyes and kiss and caress each other."
In the Missionary position, you can look into your partner's eyes and see their expressions. You can also kiss your partner and build a bond.

You are wrong about the doggy style position. "Although it is not the most commonly used sex position, it is considered the preferred position by men, while the reverse cowgirl position is preferred by women."

Men have always been dominant. (Patriarchal system). In the doggy style, they feel they are in control. They often pull the woman's hair during strokes and even slap the bums of their partners.

 

[Kusum Sharma]

There are

Today's Sex Question and Answer

Q. तो फिर, जेन्डर क्या है और यह सेक्स से कैसे अलग है?

Ans. जैसा हमने पहले भी कहा है, सेक्स महिलाओं एवं पुरुषों के बीच, जन्म से उपस्थित जैविक, संरचनात्मक, शारीरिक एवं गुणसूत्री अन्तर को दर्शाता है जैसे योनि या लिंग की उपस्थिति, मासिक धर्म या शुक्राणु उत्पादन, आनुवांशिक बनावट में अन्तर आदि।

दूसरी ओर, समाज महिला एवं पुरुष को जैसे देखता है, जैसे उनमें अंतर करता है तथा उन्हें जो भूमिकाएँ प्रदान करता है, उन्हें जेन्डर कहते हैं।

सामान्यतः लोगों से यह उम्मीद की जाती है कि वे उन्हें दिए गए जेन्डर को स्वीकार करें और उसी के अनुसार उचित व्यवहार करें।

जहाँ जेन्डर से जुड़ी भूमिकाएँ सांस्कृतिक एवं सामाजिक अपेक्षाओं के आधार पर होती हैं, वहीं जेन्डर पहचान व्यक्ति द्वारा स्वयं तय की जाती है कि वे स्वयं को पुरुष की श्रेणी में रखना चाहते हैं, महिला की श्रेणी में रखना चाहते हैं या किसी भी श्रेणी में नहीं रखना चाहते हैं।

संकेतों के एक जटिल समूह के आधार पर किसी व्यक्ति का जेन्डर तय किया जाता है जो हर संस्कृति में अलग हो सकता है।

यह संकेत अनेक प्रकार के हो सकते हैं, जैसे व्यक्ति कैसे कपड़े पहनते हैं, कैसे व्यवहार करते हैं, उनके रिश्ते किसके साथ हैं और वे सत्ता का प्रयोग कैसे करते हैं।

Q. So then, what is gender, and how is it different from sex?

Ans. As we have said earlier, sex refers to the biological, structural, physiological, and chromosomal differences between men and women, present at birth, such as the presence of a vagina or penis, menstruation or sperm production, differences in genetic makeup, etc.

On the other hand, gender is the way society views and differentiates men and women, and the roles it assigns to them.

People are generally expected to accept the gender assigned to them and behave appropriately.

While gender roles are based on cultural and social expectations, gender identity is determined by the individual whether they want to identify as male, female or neither.

A person's gender is determined based on a complex set of cues that may vary from culture to culture.

These cues can be of many types, such as how people dress, how they behave, who they are in relationships with, and how they exercise power.

There are three Gender (according to genital)

Male
Female
Trans

There Are two Types of Nature is predominant in all above genders

Submissive
Dominant

Last sexuality... Means with whom you are comfortable to get have sex...

Endless Possibilities are there just make pair from above 3 gender and two Natures

 

[Kusum Sharma]

You are right. The Missionary position is the most common. I have said in my article: "The missionary position is often preferred by couples who enjoy the romantic aspects of ample skin-to-skin contact and want the opportunity to look into each other's eyes and kiss and caress each other."
In the Missionary position, you can look into your partner's eyes and see their expressions. You can also kiss your partner and build a bond.

You are wrong about the doggy style position. "Although it is not the most commonly used sex position, it is considered the preferred position by men, while the reverse cowgirl position is preferred by women."

Men have always been dominant. (Patriarchal system). In the doggy style, they feel they are in control. They often pull the woman's hair during strokes and even slap the bums of their partners.

You Are absolutely Right.. Men just Like that position More because they feel Superior while sex in Doggy.. and that's All fine because sometimes it's only way for them to get relax after so much stressed all day.. and also ones a while pain is feel Much better than Love...

 

[Clipmaster99]

You Are absolutely Right.. Men just Like that position More because they feel Superior while sex in Doggy.. and that's All fine because sometimes it's only way for them to get relax after so much stressed all day.. and also ones a while pain is feel Much better than Love...

Well said. However, it is no longer true that men feel superior during sex. Men and women are equal partners during mating. But, you will agree that both men and women want variety and not the same sex position every time. I will, in the future, write an article on sex positions with exotic names.

Who told you that men have sex to get rid of stress? On the contrary, men are more stressed out during sex. For many men, sex is a performance issue, and that is why you hear about ED (Erectile Dysfunction).

You are mistaking pain for robust performance. No partner likes pain. If you squeeze a woman's breast like a rubber ball, that is not going to excite her. If a man has a very large penis and that keeps hitting the woman's cervix, that is not going to be fun.

 

[Clipmaster99]

You Are absolutely Right.. Men just Like that position More because they feel Superior while sex in Doggy.. and that's All fine because sometimes it's only way for them to get relax after so much stressed all day.. and also ones a while pain is feel Much better than Love...

Well said. However, it is no longer true that men feel superior during sex. Men and women are equal partners during mating. But, you will agree that both men and women want variety and not the same sex position every time. I will, in the future, write an article on sex positions with exotic names.

Who told you that men have sex to get rid of stress? On the contrary, men are more stressed out during sex. For many men, sex is a performance issue, and that is why you hear about ED (Erectile Dysfunction).

You are mistaking pain for robust performance. No partner likes pain. If you squeeze a woman's breast like a rubber ball, that is not going to excite her. If a man has a very large penis and that keeps hitting the woman's cervix, that is not going to be fun.

 

[Kusum Sharma]

Well said. However, it is no longer true that men feel superior during sex. Men and women are equal partners during mating. But, you will agree that both men and women want variety and not the same sex position every time. I will, in the future, write an article on sex positions with exotic names.

Who told you that men have sex to get rid of stress? On the contrary, men are more stressed out during sex. For many men, sex is a performance issue, and that is why you hear about ED (Erectile Dysfunction).

You are mistaking pain for robust performance. No partner likes pain. If you squeeze a woman's breast like a rubber ball, that is not going to excite her. If a man has a very large penis and that keeps hitting the woman's cervix, that is not going to be fun.

In marriage and after maturity performance issues is not there it's happening in beginning of sex life...

I'm not talking about pian that kind pain... I talked about pain experience in doggy position due to hair pulling slapping and little agression... Too much is never give you pleasure...

 

[DemonsTraitor]

There are

There are three Gender (according to genital)

Male
Female
Trans

There Are two Types of Nature is predominant in all above genders

Submissive
Dominant

Last sexuality... Means with whom you are comfortable to get have sex...

Endless Possibilities are there just make pair from above 3 gender and two Natures

there are just two genders buddy

 

[Kusum Sharma]

there are just two genders buddy

Than tell me trans is male or female.. trans is always considered as in between as per my knowledge.. no offense it's all depends on what you think.. for someone it's 2 for someone 3 and for someone many more.. nothing will change in nature based on our thinking or beliefs

 

[Clipmaster99]

there are just two genders buddy

DemonsTraitor ......This is a topic of debate and perspective.

Here are some perspectives....

Binary View: Many cultures and legal systems recognize only two genders, male and female.

Non-binary View: This perspective acknowledges that gender is not limited to just male or female and includes a wide range of identities beyond the binary, such as transgender, genderqueer, agender, and others.

Spectrum View: Some view gender as a spectrum, with infinite possibilities for how individuals might identify and express their gender.

Third Gender/Other Gender: Many cultures have recognized or are recognizing a third gender or other genders, often distinct from male and female.

Examples of Gender Identities:

Cisgender: Identifying with the gender assigned at birth.

Transgender: Identifying with a gender different from the one assigned at birth

Non-binary: An umbrella term for gender identities that are not exclusively male or female.

Genderqueer: A term for those who don't conform to traditional gender roles or identities.

Agender: Identifying with no gender.

Pangender: Identifying with all genders.

Genderfluid: Having a gender identity that fluctuates over time.

Two-spirit: A term used by some Indigenous people to describe individuals who embody both masculine and feminine spirits.

Intersex: Individuals born with biological sex characteristics that don't fit typical definitions of male or female.