Wife's sex drive is too less! What to do?
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See her to doctor. Check her hormones and get it balanced. Hormones lead a person to have a desire to have a sex. You both are still young and healthy. Do give your life a chance.
Indulge in more foreplay.. does she get wet enough? Don't pressure her into penetration.. Worship her vagina with your tongue.. do that for a few days till she craves for penetration
Give her tablets of ASHWAGANDHA with GOKSHURA. (HIMALAYA or Dabur brand) (1 each in morning and before sleep) with cup or glass of milk.
Sex drive in women is mostly related with their energy levels and muscle strength. (Also, levels of testosterone in women are very less but govern their sex drive)
This is tried, tested and safest solution to your problem.
This solution can also help men to improve their sex drive and erectile dysfunction.
Usky koi hormones ka problem lagta hai, aur tum na bhe shadi ky baad itna time kesay rooka khud ko
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It is surprising that you both had sex after such a long time after marriage. Why did you not seek Doctor’s help immediately?
There are some reasons for her dislike for sex.
One could be stress. Are there some stressful matters? Do you live in a joint family? Was yours an arranged marriage? Have you both been on a vacation to some outstation to destress? Did you go for a honeymoon?
You have mentioned that her vagina was constricted and you needed surgery to expand it. This is pelvic floor dysfunction. The muscles in the base of the pelvis don’t relax normally. Pain is the big factor. It is like electric shock. You don’t forget it easily. Pain is like that. She thinks of pain when having sex.
One reader has correctly suggested that there could be hormonal changes. Only a doctor can check and suggest treatment. The doctor will also check if there is vaginal infection and endometriosis.
One reader has suggested that you should use force with your wife. What a foolish suggestion. Never use force. Shower her with love and understanding. If she had a past affair (very doubtful) you must be patient, till she confides in you. She may need psychological help.
You talk about oral sex. If she doesn’t like sex, how will she like oral sex? Many women hate it.
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Hi familyguy, sorry to hear abt this but i guess you should sit and hear her out once with patience bhai, ho sakta hai uske saath past me kuch kharab ya ganda hua ho jo uske sexual feelings ko hurt Kiya ho, isiliye maybe sex se darti hai ya physical hone se, maybe koi family member ya ho skta hai uske saath ni but uske friend k saath hua ho toh saham gyi ho us incident se so just sit and ask her about such incidents i believe she will open up and talk abt it