I have noticed erotic stories of sex with another man's wife/gf have a far better response compared to stories of sex with virgins.
I've always wondered why is it so?
I am not a man, but my inclination in erotic stories is more towards pure untouched virgins, coz that excites me more, thinking about spoiling a good girl. But I've always seen a better reader response especially from male readers when I write adultery/cuckold stories.
Can someone explain aisa kyu hota hai?
Both men and women will be attracted to members of the opposite sex even if they are married and its an fact. No one can deny it, because marriage is, after all, just a societally laid down contract to bring in some sort of ‘civility’ to society. Otherwise, we are just a highly evolved species of animals. So it’s only natural that like in the animal world, a human being will be attracted to more than just one romantic/sexual partner… marriage or not.
So what it is it that keeps two people together in reality?
Familiarity
Human beings get used to things, to people, to everything. All we need is time. Two individuals who decide to get married typically do so because…
- they love each other and don’t want to lose each other.
- marriage would take the commitment to a whole new level. Yeah, bring in the government, the relatives and religious bodies into the relationship. So much for mutual trust! *rolls eyes*
- their parents decided that they both have to get married.
- of reasons only they both know.
This also applies to couples who are not married but are in a committed relationship. Whatever the case may be, these two are sticking around with each other because of familiarity.
You both get used to each other in your lives. You know how much sugar he likes in his coffee. You know she doesn’t like you using her soap. You know he is scared of heights. You know she still gets emotional when she talks of her grandmother. She knows you have a hole in your favorite sock and doesn’t make fun of you for it because she knows the story behind why it is so special for you. He has put reminders on his phone to call up your dad on his birthday because he knows how much it means to you.
The relationship between a long term couple gets more and more special with every passing day. And after the initial period of mutual understanding and multiple misunderstandings, there comes a time when there is no need to explain yourself to them. There is no need to ‘impress’ them. There is no need to put up a fake front in front of them.
In this world, we are forced to wear masks in front of people to be able to survive. It helps one's sanity to have at least somebody in front of whom you can afford to be just yourself… no masks, no fake niceties, no false pretenses. Just the raw you.
After a certain point in time, people often seek a companion who can be their friend and confidante, rather than a super hot body who they have to impress. That’s where the thing is.
Each time you want to take things forward with a more physically attractive person, you have to start over. Start the impressing game again. Start the self-marketing. And seriously, trying the same wooing tricks, again and again, is really boring. And after a while, it looks like an act. Plus, what worked with one individual may not work with another individual. So, y’know… it’s just not worth it unless your current partner is simply intolerable to live with.
Physical attractiveness is important. And it’s only human instinct to eye a hot bod when they pass by. And this isn’t even gender-restrictive. It’s just that men do it a little more openly than women.
But emotional bonding makes any person look insanely physically attractive to you. A beautiful body is easy to come by. But a sexy brain? If you find one and manage to charm it, never let it go. A beautiful body may excite you for a while, but a partner with a sexy brain can keep you grinning from ear to ear all your life.
;-)